The Mishap of a Wedding (Final)

(Continue from The Mishap of a Wedding Part 2)

Secondly, I warned my fiancé that the man I’m marrying must be a man with balls, though my character fit the balls pretty well too. I need a best friend, a lover and a husband but not a SON.

Third… My anger vanished. I felt guilty for my fiancé, no man should be asked to choose between his mother and his wife and I’m not that type of person who will separate a man from his mother. I sat him down again and explained where went wrong, what I can and can’t tolerate. I guess he understood what I said to him because after that incident he became a man. Will it stick? I’m not too sure.

At least, my fiancé saw the ugly part of his mother and realize how bad it affected me. After all these, I can’t blame it on my fiancé (I’m not being bias or because I love him) because he can’t control what is going to happen and especially his mother. He can tell his mother that she is rude, disrespectful and silly but he can’t stop her, but he still can draw the line.

My realisation:

It’s not my fiancé fault; he loves me too much to hurt me on purpose.

No matter what happened, she is still his mother and end of the she is doing what she think is the best for my fiancé.

I want everyone to be happy during my wedding, no anger and sour face.

My wedding is important but my fiancé feeling is even more important.

After going through the logic and reasoning thinking, I know I have to let go of all these and start a brand new life with my fiancé (which we are heading to that direction, we are moving to the next level). I told my fiancé to give me some time off before I can see his mother face again if not I might just say something to insult her (my fiancé knows me very well and he knows I will do it).

The final conclusion is we have a line that no parents can cross.